I’m currently and temporarily residing at Deer Park Monastery (DP), where my husband Mike and I have been visiting annually for the past 10-years for varying lengths of time. We arrived just before Thanksgiving this time around, and we plan to depart and head home in mid-March. Every visit here is a little different. I’m different; the monastery is different; the world is different. Did I mention everything is of the nature to change?
I find it helpful to spend a little time reflecting on why it is I continue to feel drawn to coming here, and what it is I’m doing when I’m here. It’s important to me to understand why I do what I do, if for no other reason than to check in with myself to make sure my actions are in line with the direction I want to travel in.
Here are a few specific things I’m practicing here at DP, which I find especially nourishing & beneficial:
Simplifying. As you might surmise, monastery living is simple living. The small rooms we stay in meet our basic needs but are nothing fancy. Some might even say the indoor accommodations are in desperate need of attention and upgrading. Our meals are nutritious, filling, and mostly pallet pleasing but vary little in their content. When we stay at the monastery, we stay at the monastery. It’s not like a hotel where we come and go and take day trips around the area. When we’re here, we’re invested in following the schedule, being part of the community, and engaging with the practices that are part of our spiritual tradition. DP is a rich fertile learning environment for practicing simplification. This is a place that offers limited distractions, promotes wholesome usages of time, and centers on acting in accordance with mindful conduct, thoughts, and speech. DP is good training ground on how to cut out the chaff and connect with the heart of what really matters.
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