Non-duality has been on my mind a lot lately. The art of balance & blending. Of holding more than one part of reality to be true at the same time as another perhaps seemingly paradoxical/contradictory part. For example, gratefulness and being stressed out are not mutually exclusive feeling states. I have been experiencing high volumes of both of these on board in my mind/body system lately a good deal of the time, simultaneously.
The teachings and wisdom centered around non-duality date back a long ways and from my very limited understanding originate largely from Asian cultures. Many people from many lands for many years have been passing down knowledge and wisdom around non-duality, and I am especially grateful for my root teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, from whom I first and foremost have been led and instructed by in regards to this thread of practice.
My sense is, for many of us, non-duality is a tricky wicket. For a long long time, I understood it only in theory. But as my practice grows and strengthens – and perhaps also as I get older – I feel as though I am now starting to actually get what it means on a real, felt experience level.
Thinking, speaking, and acting in a Yes AND sort of way verses an Either OR sort of way is no small task. I think it’s relatively easy to grasp on a cognitive level but applying it IRL takes some real practice. And currently, and for a little while now, I feel as though I have been getting a lot of practice.
My husband and I are in active land search mode right now. Since spring has sprung here in the mountains of Montana, we’ve been getting a lot of boots on the ground time in. Every week we are out driving dirt roads in all directions on our quest for finding a place to set up shop. “Shop” meaning: a place for us to live year-round and also start our long-held dream of creating a mindfulness practice center that is open for folks to visit, stay, retreat (& maybe live), and build community (for info about our aspiration, called Empty Mountain, click here to visit our newly created website).
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