A few days ago I received a message on Facebook, notifying me that a friend of mine had mentioned me in a comment. When I clicked through, to find out what it was regarding, I read the following post, from a local wilderness group:
With warmer weather already here, or just around the corner, this is a good reminder from Friends of Great Smoky Mountains National Park.
“Some people stack rocks…as a form of meditation. Some do it and call it art. More often than not, it makes for a neat Instagram picture and is never thought of again.
But what you may not realize is that stacking river rocks is doing serious damage to the delicate river ecosystem. And it’s not just cairns, the same goes for moving rocks and creating dams to make chutes or pools in a stream for tubing. Aquatic plants and animals make their homes on, under, and around these rocks. Some of the 68 species of fish in the park build their nests in small cavities under rocks. When people move the rocks, the nest is destroyed and the eggs and young fish die.”
My friend, knowing of my love for building cairns, then commented on this post with: Nicole Dunn uh-oh!
For a few minutes I thought about whether it would be worth my replying to her comment, or if it was better to simply let it go and not say anything. I decided I did want to voice my opinion, so here’s what I posted in response:
“All of you are perfect just as you are and you could use a little improvement.” –
(1905 – 1971)
I’m pretty sure I’ve shared this quote before on my blog but the way I figure it, when it comes to deep and important teachings, you can’t really hear them enough. In my experience understanding teachings is a long process. And the more “simple” the teaching appears the more complex the understanding process gets. It is quite easy to say to ourselves, “Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, I get it, and I totally do that already,” when really we have very little concept of a certain teaching. Just because we hear something and absorb it on an intellectual level does not necessarily mean we absorb it on an emotional level and know how to actually put it into practice in our everyday lives.
The above quote by Suzuki-roshi is one of my favorites. It speaks to the heart of our human condition and to the root of our struggle. For better AND for worse our collective society is very dualistic in nature. What this means is that we function in an EITHER/OR manner. For instance: people are either good OR bad, we feel either happy OR sad, life is either black OR white, decisions made are either wrong OR right. We can get terribly confused when it comes to teachings on non-duality, which involves the practice of seeing things as part of BOTH sides, not just one or the other.
What Suzuki-roshi is encouraging us to practice is seeing that in this very moment, with this very breath, we are all both perfect AND in need of improvement. When we get caught in duality in regards to this teaching we can become very off balance and cause a lot of distress for ourselves and others. If we only focus on the first part of seeing that we’re perfect we can become very self-absorbed, callous, and disconnected from the effects we have on others. Our ego becomes inflated, we form shallow relationships, and we are unable to grow. And if we only focus on the second part of seeing that we need improvement we can become very self-conscious, emotionally over sensitive, and unable to socially engage and interact with others. Our sense of self is deflated to the point of self-pity, loathing, depression, and worthlessness. In both instances we will be unable to grow and transform.
To begin to understand this teaching we need to practice seeing that both parts of us exist at the very same time. We are perfect just as we are AND we are all in need of a little improvement. Practicing with both sides allows our ego to not become overly inflated while also not beating up on ourselves for the parts of us we wish were different or better.
What a completely beautiful, complex, confusing, and enthralling opportunity it is to be human eh?